Heather has been with TER since 2010. She been described as sophisticated and smart. She loves the beach, water, Jimmy Choo and her job!
TER: Are you working toward an ultimate goal – for example, saving money for starting a business? Or, do you find this work something you want to do in the long-term? When do you feel it would be time to quit?
Heather Harlow: I love what I do, I love meeting interesting people, and this is a 2nd act for me; I have found my calling so to speak, one can never say never, but I’m loving my life right now. I have to say, saving money is key in this business! Thankfully, I have an amazing financial planner and accountant that holds me liable for my income. He gives me pep talks and reminds me that I don’t need that new Gucci purse or the Jimmy Choo’s I so love. He keeps me focused on my ultimate goal and, that is to retire someday just like the rest of the world! We all have to retire someday right?
I love what I do, I love meeting interesting people, and this is a 2nd act for me; I have found my calling so to speak, one can never say never, but I’m loving my life right now. I have to say, saving money is key in this business! Thankfully, I have an amazing financial planner and accountant that holds me liable for my income. He gives me pep talks and reminds me that I don’t need that new Gucci purse or the Jimmy Choo’s I so love. He keeps me focused on my ultimate goal and, that is to retire someday just like the rest of the world! We all have to retire someday right?
TER: What sort of qualities do you think one needs to possess or cultivate to be successful in this business?
Heather Harlow: To be successful in any business, you have to have passion and you need to like people, but primarily, it’s the wonderful men I meet in this arena! I am utterly flattered to be chosen by someone (given all of the wonderful ladies out there)! And, the best part of it is, I LOVE to show my appreciation!
TER: How did you get into this business? Anything you wished you had known when you started?
Heather Harlow: Oh boy, the short version is, I have a good girlfriend who “suggested” it one night while we had a few glasses of wine that we chugalugged, (yeah those were the days, I mean who chugalugs wine?). She belted it out and thought I would like it, and so the story goes, I’m here 6 years later.
TER: Have you ever had second thoughts about this business?
Heather Harlow: I’ve never had second thoughts, which tells me that I must love what I am doing!
TER: How do you handle first-timers or those who have limited experience with escort services? What are your suggestions to such clients to make your encounter the most enjoyable?
Heather Harlow: Be honest, be open, provide enough time and patience for screening, but leave enough room for some magic to happen. Come see me really fresh and clean, as I want to create a session that will thrill you and dwell in your memories for days, weeks, or until you come back and see me!
TER: What are your passions outside of this business?
Heather Harlow: Exercise!! Yes, I am passionate about EXERCISE because it has changed my life tremendously! And running on the beach is another! Those who know me well, know that the beach is my “church”. It’s where I go to meditate and reset my vivacity! I am a water baby and love water activities. I water ski and go boating A LOT! I love fast cars, fast boats, well……… fast anything really. My family and I spend a lot of time at the lake, river, and beach and they are a paramount part in my life so I enjoy my time “off” with them. I love most genre’s of music! So, a good concert is always a blast! I can rock out to Guns N Roses, Motley Crue or tone it down with Teddy Pendergrass, with the “LIGHTS DOWN LOW”. And last but certainly not least, I revel in fine dining, (I’m a foodie) and I am always looking for that trendy new restaurant, or finding the best seafood place in town!
TER: Do your family and friends know what you do? If so, what were there reactions?
Heather Harlow: They do! And, they are very supportive yet very protective of me and my reputation! The reactions have varied but since it’s been 6 years, they have found this has been wonderful for me. I have a good support group and strong one at that!
TER: What is the best concert you have attended?
Heather Harlow: I can’t pick just one, I love all kinds of music including country, classical, heavy metal, R&B, but, I am a real sucker for old school R&B, as I was blessed with a juicy, curvy apple bottom that is often worshiped!
TER: Do you have any guilty pleasures? You know, like eating rocky road ice cream while watching romantic comedies, etc.
Heather Harlow: I don’t ever feel guilty about things that bring me pleasure, and neither should you!
TER: What’s a typical day like for you?
Heather Harlow: I like to start my mornings with 3 cups of black coffee, (gotta have my coffee) then I follow it up with a workout that gives me all of the energy I am going to need to see my gentleman friends! Speaking of that, I do a lot of prep work to make sure that the hideaway is perfect for us and that I have something really sexy to wear so booking with me last minute is almost never available! I take great pride in being perfect for you so when you walk through my door or I show up to meet you, I want you to say, “Hubba-Hubba”!
TER: What do you like about living in San Diego? Do you have favorite places to go or a favorite restaurant?
Heather Harlow: I love the weather, and all the opportunities to be active and to be outdoors! San Diego is truly HEAVEN! The beautiful people, the amazing weather, and well, again, the beaches we have are just what I need and love!
And, being that I am a foodie, I love showing off my favorite restaurants to my friends and companions, but a woman needs a few secrets, right?
TER: Do you have any hidden talents? (singing, dancing, etc)
Heather Harlow: Is driving a man to untold pleasure to the point of haunting their dreams a hidden talent? If so, that would be mine!
TER: Describe yourself in three (3) words?
Heather Harlow: Joyful, engaging, big-hearted (4 words, I cheated)
TER: Do you travel a lot? What has been your favorite place to visit so far? Where do you want to visit and why?
Heather Harlow: I travel some but it’s strictly for business! I typically don’t go to many of the cities I travel for personal time of indulgence. I know, I should right? But, I don’t. However, I love Chicago. It’s amazing vibe, food, and kind people, are some of the things I enjoy most. One of these days I hope to create the time to really see these fantastic cities I continue to visit!
TER: What is your favorite food?
Heather Harlow: Well, this is a loaded question but I will keep it simple in answer! I know I’ve said it a few times already but if you didn’t get it the first few times, I am a FOODIE! But because I am a foodie, I avoid fast food at all costs! If I am going to waste calories on something good, give this girl a good steak and top it off with my favorite Cabernet, a 09′ Caymus! From what I am hearing lately though, is it’s difficult to find the 09′ Caymus. If anyone can find a bottle (or two), feel free to let me know!
TER: Do you have a favorite sport or sport team?
Heather Harlow: I don’t have one particular team that I can say is my favorite! I do have two teams I like though (football only). I like the Raiders (rest in peace dad, his favorite team and was a die-hard fan until he passed). And, the other team I like, are the 49er’s. I love Colin Kaepernick! Enough said!
TER: What do you do in your free time?
Heather Harlow: Chances are, you will find me either running past you on the beach or near any body of water! Quiet time is important to me as well. I like my alone time with Mozart, Bach or Beethoven playing in the background. This is a new interest for me though (the classical music, that is). I recently took a road trip and needed something soothing to listen to with all of the activity in my life so, I turned on the classical music station on my sirius xm radio and I found it to be exactly what I needed. Now I listen to it when I want quiet time.
Chances are, you will find me either running past you on the beach or near any body of water! Quiet time is important to me as well. I like my alone time with Mozart, Bach or Beethoven playing in the background. This is a new interest for me though (the classical music, that is). I recently took a road trip and needed something soothing to listen to with all of the activity in my life so, I turned on the classical music station on my sirius xm radio and I found it to be exactly what I needed. Now I listen to it when I want quiet time.
This business has changed my life in so many ways that is difficult to keep short but, I will. I want all of the gentlemen to know that I am a happy, very well centered person and I surround myself with those alike. I am living my life the way I want and I do things that are positive and motivating. I am drug-free and being physically fit is one of my main passions. I’ve decided I am going to prepare myself for a fitness competition next year; that IS my goal anyway. I like to set my goals high and better yet, I like to succeed at them. I hope that you find my interview questions genuine and sincere and if you have had me on your bucket list to see, I hope that this will be the time you will take to reach out to me! I look forward to seeing old friends and meeting new friends!
Thank you TER for nominating me for MS. TER, April 2016! (Princess wave) LOL
Congratulations to Scarlett, our runner-up for April. Another beautiful California girl with a passion for humanitarian work.